Difficult Conversations : How to Discuss What Matters Most
If you think difficult conversations can’t be made easy, you’re not alone.
It turns out there are only 3 types. Diagnose which type you’re in so you can change it from being emotionally taxing to a “learning conversation” where problems get solved.
Three Types of Difficult Conversations
The “What Happened?” Conversation
Centers on who’s right, and who’s wrong.
The solution is to shift from a blame-focused to a solution-focused conversation.
Acknowledge your own contribution to the issue first – preventing other party using it
as a weapon.



